The call starts the same way every time. “Hey, got a minute? Quick question.” Forty minutes later you have given away a free consult, missed your next appointment, and the client has no idea any of it cost you anything at all. It never feels like a big deal in the moment. It is a big deal, repeated fifteen times a week, across an entire year.
The got-a-minute call is the most common form of scope creep in this profession, and it is rarely dishonest. Clients are not trying to take advantage of you (at least most of them aren’t). They genuinely do not know where the line is, because you have never drawn one. That is the part you can actually fix.
The Got-a-Minute Call Is Never Actually a Minute
A “quick question” is almost never quick, because the question that prompted the call is usually connected to something bigger, a notice, a life change, a decision the client is nervous about. You cannot answer it in sixty seconds without either giving a dangerously incomplete answer or doing real, unbilled work to give a real one. Most tax pros, being conscientious by nature, choose the second option every single time, and that choice is exactly what turns fifteen scattered interruptions into an unplanned second job every week. I know this first hand as I have done this many times myself.
Why You Keep Saying Yes
Here is what is actually happening. Saying no to a quick question feels like risking the relationship, so the instinct is to always say yes and absorb the cost yourself. I get it. I respect it. And I am telling you that the relationship was never actually at risk. What was at risk is your calendar, your family time, and the false idea that being endlessly available is the same thing as being a good practitioner. It is not. Being available on a predictable, scheduled basis is what actually serves a client well. Being interruptible at all hours mostly serves their anxiety, at your expense.
The Boundary Script That Does Not Damage the Relationship
You do not need to say no. You need a redirect that sounds warm and still protects your time. Something close to this works: “That is a real question, and I want to give you a real answer, not a rushed one. Let me grab you fifteen minutes on the calendar this week so I … Continue reading
